My mom says that I was born bossy. I used to play "school" with my little brother. As the teacher, I would command him to sit in his seat and do his work. I ruled my imaginary classroom with an iron fist.
Somewhere along the way in my work life I learned that it takes more to succeed than a plan and a loud voice. I worked hard to learn the skills of collaboration. I learned to listen and implement strategies that reflect the values and ideas of a workgroup or community.
I was proud of my ability to successfully partner. I even won accolades for my ability to facilitate partnership. Over time I came to rely on my skill as a collaborator. I became less confident in my ability to act independently, to lead.
Now I find myself coming full circle. I am becoming increasingly impatient with collaborative projects. I feel the need to strike out on my own, to focus on my own goals and objectives. I want to take charge and lead the way for myself. I think it is time to channel that bossy little girl again.
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